This is an excerpt from “Living WINKIAW,” volume 6 of the Bliss Series by Tamara Johnson.

Relationships are created for Life’s Self-fulfillment for all frequencies of Being. All relationships that fail do so, because one or both parties pretend to be other than their true self. There is no such thing in the cosmos as an unfulfilled frequency of Being. Frequencies are withdrawn from forms that cannot reflect their bliss. Control is the fastest and surest way to lose desire because no frequency of Being exists to be controlled. All desire to control anyone or anything fail and suffer wounds of the failed ruler archetype.

Twenty beliefs, desires, pretenses and scams comprise the wounded ruler archetype.

1. The belief that they are fundamentally unworthy of being loved.
2. The belief that they must sacrifice themselves to deserve being loved.
3. The belief that they must prove that their sacrifice atoned for their fundamental flaws.
4. The belief that love means obedience, compliance and acceptance of being ruled by someone else.
5. The belief that to prove that we are lovable, we must betray our body nature’s inner dictates and become what other people expect us to be.
6. Pretending to believe that being used is being loved.
7. Pretending that being rejected by someone is proof that we are unworthy of love.
8. Divorcing from our awareness, body, life, world and consciousness every trace of love we felt for the person who rejected us and every trace of experience lived in the relationship.
9. Self-hatred for loving, serving and sacrificing a person who didn’t deserve us.
10. Divorcing the pain of missing body signals.
11. Divorcing the dreams that we failed to fulfill.
12. Hating the body, that expresses the above beliefs.
13. Pretending to fix, improve, mask, control the body nature’s dreams, life experience or reality.
14. Using the body to serve the brain’s programmed agenda.
15. Deceiving the body about what fulfills its dreams, its being nature, its reason for becoming incarnate.
16. Embezzling the body’s gifts and miracles and giving them to people who cannot metabolize them into self-fulfillment life.
17. Punishing the body for failing to comply with the brain’s programs.
18. Blaming other people for self-inflicted suffering, caused by scams we pretended to believe.
19. Divorcing the body for reflecting the lies we pretended was truth, bliss, nature, love, life or fulfillment.
20. Spinning self-pity stories for wounds, pain and suffering that we pretend were caused by life, the world or other people.

The beliefs and stories of the wounded ruler show up in every relationship with others, with ourselves and with our body’s self-fulfillment. You may recognize them as the beliefs in all mythology about gods. These beliefs show up in movies about love, war or family life. They show up at work in human relations between bosses, employees, heroes and superheroes